Scene 5: The Five Ways of Expressing Love

//SE: Video podcast online streaming background music

(A male podcast host started the show)

(A podcast host asks the boy)

“Alright. What is your love language?”

“Well, I couldn’t answer it directly or choose one.”

“Why is that?” //curious

“For me, I can give my loved ones all five languages because I want them to feel extra special by doing all of it for them. And when it comes to me, I would be glad to receive all five, too.”

“That’s a good take. Care to elaborate?”

“I believe all five love languages are important. Your expertise might be giving words of affirmation, but acts of service don’t sound so bad, too. You might love to receive gifts from someone special, but it won’t suffice alone. You still need quality time, physical touch, words of affirmation, and acts of service. To fulfill each other’s needs, aside from communication, all five languages must be met.”

“Interesting. From which experience has made you think this way? This is my first time hearing that all five love languages must be fulfilled, and that you couldn’t choose and settle for just one.”

“I just realized this when I met someone. There’s a challenge in our relationship, where I was unable to fully express my feelings for her, because we only met each other virtually. I noticed how I feel complete when I’m with her, but seeing and spending time with her on my phone screen wasn’t enough. That gave me the conclusion that every individual has their major and minor needs in a relationship. If all are not met, it might result in dissatisfaction for both people.”

“Let’s give him a round of applause for such a wonderful and heartfelt answer.”

//SE: People applaud

“Any message to your loved ones you would rather express your complete package of five love languages?”

“I want my loved ones to feel how much they mean to me. Going the extra mile to give them security that I truly love them definitely is worth it.”

***

“What can you say about the podcast?”

“You did well. You sounded so full of wisdom.” //admire

“You think so? I was actually nervous during the live recording.”

“Really? It wasn’t obvious. You were confident and composed.” //she compliments him

“So, what do you think about my answers a while ago? Do you agree with me?”

//thinking deeply

“Hmm…”

“This is a safe space. Feel free to share your thoughts with me. I won’t judge you, and it’s okay if you don’t agree with me. I just want to hear your opinion about it.”

“For me, your answer made sense. At first, I thought 2 or 3 love languages were enough to make someone feel loved. But then, when I heard your answer, it occurred to me that being loved comes with being listened to, being understood, being taken care of, and being included. We can achieve all of it by also providing all five love languages to someone. When I imagine that someone special to me would give me their all, it feels fantastic.” //dreamy, hopeful

“We have the same views.”

“You did great, that I made you something.” //excited “Check this out.”

//he’s smiling

“Okay. You sound so excited, huh?”

“Look what I baked.”

(She shows her homemade cookies to him on the phone screen)

“Chocolate chip cookies!”

“That’s right. Freshly baked chocolate chips. I believe this is by far my best version because I finally perfected it.”

(She grabbed one and ate one cookie)

“Careful, that looks hot.” //cautious

“Aw!” //she burned her tongue “I got too excited, haha” //chuckles

“Those look delicious. You baked a lot. I hope I can have those.”

“Mm” //humming because of the delicious taste. “Here have one.”

(She acted like giving him a cookie on the phone screen)

(He grabbed the virtual cookie on his phone screen)

//he’s acting like he’s munching the cookie

“This is the best” //smile

//she smirks

“Told you. I wish you could taste them too because they are irresistible.” //teasing him

“Hey, why don’t we meet in person?” //impulsive

“What’s with the sudden move?” //shy

“I didn’t mean harm to you. I have no ill intention. I just want to know you better by finally meeting you in person.” //convincing

“That makes sense. We become closer from voice messages to voice calls, and from voice calls to video calls.”

“You don’t have to worry about me. I’m not a fake profile. Everything we did is genuine. What you see in my dating profile is what you’ll get. What you heard of my voice in our voice chats and voice calls is the same as my actual voice. How you see me now while video calling is the actual me.” //genuine tone

“We’ve been talking for months. I also want us to be closer than having video calls.” //hopeful

“I guess we feel the same. What do you say?”

“Mm” //closed-mouth nod “I want to see you.”

“I won’t hesitate to say it, I want to date you.” //determined

“Uh…”//shy “Okay, let’s meet.” //calming voice

//delight

“Let’s decide on the time and day. I will meet you near your place, so it won’t be a hassle for you.” //thinking “What do you say we meet at this restaurant before lunchtime this coming Saturday?”

“I approve.” //she agrees

“All set. I'll see you on Saturday.” //delight

“Looking forward to seeing you.”